If you made a decision to have an abortion but you are now struggling with conflicting emotions... We are here for you.
It’s not unusual to battle feelings of anger, guilt, regret or grief following an abortion (or termination).
Perhaps you found yourself struggling immediately after the event or many years later when something triggered a regret or sudden sense of loss.
Sadly due to the taboos often associated with abortion, women can be left feeling isolated and unable to talk about it with somebody who understands.
The fact that everything will be all right, does not necessarily make anything all right now. Anyone can tell you it won’t hurt tomorrow but we are here to listen while it hurts today.
What to expect
In counselling our post abortion trained counsellors or support workers will listen and offer emotional support while you work through all that you are feeling.
It almost seems glib to say thank you since what you have done for me is so much more than words can ever describe. I've shared my deepest darkest thoughts and my biggest fears and yet you still greet me like a long lost friend. You've placed value on my tears when all I could do is cry and you constantly remind me to be kind to myself.
― Anonymous ― I would just like to say my overall experience of counselling has been amazing. I have learnt so much and got back much more. The idea of me having counselling was just something that didn't suit me - as sitting down and talking is not me at all. But now I've learnt I can do it and it's not weak, it's more stronger. Thank you for all the support. It's been a good journey.
― Anonymous ― I just wanted to thank you and let you know how I'm doing. I really am getting there when it come to self love. It's a slow process but I really see a bright future ahead of me now. I've been keeping myself busy with work but also making sure I make the time to care for my mental and physical health too. You showed me how to keep going even when I really felt like I couldn't do it anymore, and to believe in myself, so I just want to thank you so much for all the support you gave to me, I appreciate it more than you'll ever know. You helped me see that there is a light at the end of the tunnel and even though I will never forget what I went through, there are healthier ways to deal with it. I hope you are doing well and staying safe with everything that's going on. Thank you again
― Anonymous ― Everything was fantastic about my experience at Jakin. I felt so incredibly supported and accepted and was given as much time as I needed to work through my grief. You were so kind and attentive throughout, I can't thank you enough.
― Anonymous ― Seeing You has changed my life you have helped me so much. I have had counselling before in the past and hated it. I vowed I would never do it again but my counsellor from Jakin was amazing, I’m so happy I came here.
― Anonymous ―